My father is 80 + years old.  We live together.  He is a fine gentleman.

In his prime, he used to be a successful businessman, a well respected community leader and an energetic man.

What I remember most of his prime years was his selfless approach to living.   He would give of his time, wisdom and resources to one and all.

People used to come to him with all kinds of problems - marital, financial, emotional.   He had a way of making everyone feel touched by his insights, warmth and authenticity.

He got a lot of positive energy from giving!

For his children he was a great role model.   We learned more not from what he said but rather from what he did!

I do not know how long my father is going to be around (we don't know this of anyone) but I do know that I will not lose this opportunity to say:

"I love you, Dad.
You are the best father in the world!
Thank you for trusting me and giving me a great start in life!
I will always love you, no matter where you are!"

Hey fellow children, your parents or elders in your family may not be perfect, no-one is.

But hopefully they have some good qualities and are trying hard to be good.

By praising them for their good qualities you enhance their self worth. When you are old your health and self worth matters a lot!